Can you imagine a church that not only encourages its congregation to have sex, but also teaches you how to do it? It may be hard to fathom, but there is one. It's called the Church of the Tantra, dating back to 800 AD. The belief system is still practiced today in some parts of the world. Before you get too excited about waking up early next Sunday, don't expect to find this church on the corner in your neighborhood. It's primarily practiced in Eastern cultures. You know, on the other side of the world! Nevertheless, you will learn enough about the techniques in this article to duplicate and practice them religiously at home.
As unusual as it may sound, this church combines spirituality with something NO other church does-sexuality. There is no shame or guilt for desiring sex; as a matter of fact, they have an entire book of sexual techniques called the Kama Sutra. The most fantastic thing about this book is that it can be used by anyone of any religion. You don't have to convert before you can adapt its practices to your sex life. All you have to do is have a willingness to broaden your sexual techniques.
Here's a sample of instructions for a variety of sexual positions from the Indian "bible"-The Kama Sutra. This book makes the "Joy of Sex" look like a kindergarten book:
Lying Down: "Full of desire, saying sweet words, approach her with your body stiff as a pole and drive straight forward to pierce her lotus and join your limbs." this is called "Madandhvaja" (The Flag of Cupid).
Sitting Position: "She sits with raised thighs, her feet placed either side of your waist; penis enters vagina; you rain hard blows upon her body." This is called "Kshudgaga" (Striking).
Rear-Entry: "If the lady, eager for love, goes on all fours, humping her back like a doe, and you enjoy her from behind, rutting as though you'd lost all human nature." This is called "Hirana" (The Deer).
Standing Position: "When she leans against a wall, planting her feet as widely apart as possible, and you enter the cave between her thighs, eager for lovemaking." This is called "Sammukha" (Face to Face).
A Cure for Impotence:
- "The artificial phallus should be shaped to your natural proportions. It will be more arousing for the lady if the outside is studded."
- If, during lovemaking, the erection cannot be sustained because the man is old, or simply exhausted he should use delicate oral techniques."
- A man who climaxes too swiftly should arouse his lady by caressing her clitoris with his fingers and flooding the well of her vagina before he enters her."
The Kama Sutra makes an art out of making love. It's a manual for all ages. It helps new love blossom, bored love become exciting, and absent love reappear. What's better than indulging yourself sexually with someone you love? It's all about getting both partners on the same page to be intimate, then making the time to do so. If there's one thing you learn from their ancient practices, it's that sex is not an after-thought at the end of your day. Do what they have done for many years and make lovemaking a spiritual connection you share with your partner.
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Nancy Fagan, M.S., author of “The Complete Idiot’s Guide to Romance” and “Desirable Men: How to Find Them.” To read more, visit http://www.expertdatingadvice.com/.
